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How do I look after a friend's smallholding for a weekend?

Published October 26, 2026

The short answer

A good weekend sit is built before your friend leaves, starting with a written rundown for every group of animals: what they eat, how much, in what order, when they are shut in and let out, and what normal looks like for each. Walk the holding together once, so gates, feed bins, water points and awkward latches are familiar rather than discovered in the dark, and take the vet's number as well as your friend's. While they are away, keep their routine exactly rather than improving it, and send a short daily update so they can relax. This kind of clear, temporary access to routines and key details is precisely what a KinsLe Care Pass hands a sitter.

Two days of smallholding sitting sounds simple, and mostly it is — the animals need feeding, watering, shutting in and letting out, and the place needs to look lived-in. Where weekend sits go wrong is rarely effort; it is information. The feed scoop that measures two animals' rations, not one. The gate that only latches if you lift it. The old goat who always lags at feeding and is not, in fact, ill. A good sitter collects that knowledge before the car leaves, then spends the weekend executing a routine rather than inventing one.

Before they leave: the handover that matters

Ask for the rundown in writing, group by group: what feed, how much measured in the actual scoops used, how often, and in what order animals are fed so nobody is missed. Pin down shutting-in and letting-out times, egg collection, and which water points need checking versus filling. Get the vet's number, your friend's mobile, and a neighbour or second contact for anything heavy or alarming. Ask directly about the awkward truths: which animal is a bully at the trough, which is on any ongoing treatment or special feed, who is elderly, lame-prone or an escape artist, and what each animal's normal appetite and droppings look like. If any animal is unwell before the weekend, agree in advance what you are — and are not — expected to do about it.

Walk the holding together once

One lap of the place with your friend is worth a page of notes. Open every gate you will use, fill every bin you will scoop from, and find the stopcock, fuse box, feed store key and the torch by the door. Photograph the feed board and the layout of labelled bins. Note the animals' own geography too: the hens' pop-hole routine, the field the goats use when it rains, the slow-filling trough. This half hour teaches you the place's normal sounds and sights, so you can spot the one thing that is different on day two.

Keep their routine, not yours

Animals read routine as safety. Feed in the same order, at the same times, in the same places, using the same calls and bucket rattles your friend uses. Resist improving things: this is not the weekend to move troughs, try a new feed, worm anybody, introduce a visiting dog 'to see how they get on', or let hens out into a garden they do not usually use. Walk fence lines and check water on every round, collect eggs daily, and lock feed stores against any animal that has learned what persistence achieves. If you find damage — a chewed wire, a dug corner — secure it and report it rather than redesigning it.

The daily round, morning and evening

Mornings: let out, feed, water, and look properly while animals eat, because feeding time is when appetite, lameness and bullying all show themselves. Evenings: feed, top up water, collect eggs, shut in with a headcount, and check every latch twice. In poor weather add a mid-day check on water, shelter and anything wind or rain can move. Send one short message a day — all fed, all in, anything worth knowing — which keeps your friend relaxed and gives you a record if questions arise later. Keep the yard tidy as you go.

If something looks wrong

An animal off its feed, injured or trapped is a phone call, not a wait-and-see: ring your friend first, and the vet if you cannot reach them or it is clearly urgent. Secure the animals — shut gates, separate a bullied one if you safely can, provide water and shelter — and attempt no treatments that were not part of the handover. When your friend returns, walk them through what happened and anything you noticed, then hand back a holding whose residents barely registered the change. That calm handover is easy when the care details came to you in one clear package, which is why a KinsLe Care Pass — temporary access to the animals' routines and key information while the owner is away — suits a sitting weekend so well.

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