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What should I put in writing when a family member takes over my dog's care for a year while I work abroad?

Published October 26, 2026

The short answer

Put the arrangement itself in writing first: who is responsible day to day, who can authorise veterinary treatment and up to what point you must be consulted, and who pays for food, insurance and vet bills during the year. Then attach the working documents — feeding and medication routines, vet and emergency contacts, insurer and microchip details, behaviour notes and the routines your dog relies on — plus how you will stay in contact and what happens if the arrangement breaks down. KinsLe's Care Pass gives that family member clear, temporary access to your dog's care routine and key details for the whole posting, so the written handover is in their hands, not a folder left behind.

Write down the arrangement itself, not just the routine

Most handovers document feeding times and forget the agreement underneath them, which is the part a year actually tests. Start with responsibilities: your family member is in charge of day-to-day care, and you remain the owner, reachable for decisions. Say plainly who can authorise veterinary treatment, and set the consultation threshold — routine appointments and genuine emergencies proceed without waiting for a time-zone-delayed reply, while anything major or ongoing gets discussed with you first wherever the situation allows.

Cover money with the same clarity. Who pays for food, insurance premiums, grooming and vet bills during the year: you by a monthly transfer, them as their contribution, or a shared account you both can see? Unspoken money arrangements are where good family intentions quietly curdle, especially if an expensive illness lands in month eight. A short, signed note that both of you keep turns all of this from assumption into agreement.

Attach the working documents your dog's life runs on

Behind the agreement, assemble the file your dog's carer will open weekly, not just once. Feeding routine with amounts and the food itself, medication instructions if any, walk routes and exercise habits, and the behaviour notes that matter: how she is with other dogs, what frightens her, what settles her, the cues and house rules she knows so her training does not unravel over a year of kindly meant inconsistency.

Add the official layer: your vet's details and the emergency clinic's, insurer and policy reference, microchip number with a note to update the contact details to the carer's phone for the year with your agreement recorded, and any boarding or walking services she already knows. If she has quirks with paperwork — a vaccination due mid-year, a policy renewal falling due — list those dates so nothing lapses while both of you assume the other is watching it.

Agree how you stay connected to her life

A year is long enough for a dog to grey slightly, change habits and have adventures you will miss, so build the contact rhythm into the writing. Agree how updates flow: photographs and news at whatever pace is honest rather than ambitious, a standing video call, and how quickly the carer should contact you with bad news — immediately for emergencies, in the next update for minor scrapes. Name the bad-news rule explicitly, because carers who dread upsetting you sometimes delay news you would have wanted at once.

Also write the fallback. If the carer's circumstances change — illness, a house move, a job that stops the arrangement working — what happens next: a named second person, a boarding option you have approved, or an early end to your posting? Deciding that calmly now, together, is a kindness to everyone including the dog.

Make the handover something they hold, not something you left

A folder on your shelf at home is no use once you are abroad and the carer is standing in a vet's waiting room. The written agreement can stay as signed copies for each of you, but the working details need to live in the carer's hands, current and reachable, for the entire year. Update them together whenever something changes, rather than letting your version and their version drift apart across an ocean.

That live handover is exactly what KinsLe's Care Pass is designed for: it gives your family member temporary, clear access to your dog's care routine and key details while you are away, so the dog's life runs on the real instructions, not on memory and goodwill.

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